The Best Sex Toys Ever Invented For Women

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As a sex writer with a vagina, I've tried out more sex toys for women than I know what to do with. Truly, my overly full bedside drawer is only what's currently in rotation, while my towering bookshelf stack threatens to topple over with each new toy placed on it. I'd wager there are upward of a hundred (honestly, maybe more) sex toys that have had the privilege of spending some QT with my vulva. She's seen everything from a wide range of queer sex toys, suction vibrators, bullets, wands, rabbits, top-of-the-line luxury vibrators, and sex tech to the most affordable vibrators on sale — even discreet wearable panty vibes and sex toy jewelry. Hell, I've even pounded myself with a tool-shaped monster called the Love Hamma.

All this testing has been great, mostly because it's enabled me to learn exactly which sex toys work for my body and what a good-quality sex toy feels like (shout out to medical-grade silicone!) as well as how well it stands the test of time with repeated use. That said, I get asked on the regular by friends, family, and strangers on the internet alike...which sex toy is the absolute best?

While I can't crown just one vibrator, these 10 have my vote.

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