Impatience is one of many struggles Black women face during the wait for love. In her 50-part viral TikTok series
‘Who TF Did I Marry’, storyteller
Reesa Tessa talks about getting tired of waiting and just wanting it to be her turn. In the latest series of
Love Is Blind,
AD struggled to come to terms with Clay’s decision not to marry her so she questioned herself as a partner and a woman, and
during the finale, she wondered through tears when it would be her turn to get married. Legendary singer
Tina Turner also shared her struggles with the wait in her critically acclaimed
documentary TINA where she talked about wanting someone to see the beauty in the woman she was. Fans of the
sitcom Girlfriends will be familiar with the impulsive impatience of Joan Clayton. When she doesn’t settle down in the arbitrary timeframe she gives herself, she goes from one relationship to another, convincing herself she would get her happy ending — and that her happiness depended on a man.