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We love the idea of seduction. We also love the idea of hold-it-right-there, mind-blowing sex. But, most of all, we love the idea that you can give it to yourself — no partner required.

Self-pleasure is an important part of every sex life, whether it’s just-for-you or to share with a partner exactly how you like to be touched. Either way, consider this an invitation. Here’s your guide to solo sex, complete with everything you need to be your own best lover.

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